Aaron Henes, LPCC
IFC specialized therapy for long-lasting, real results.
Virtual and in-person sessions from anywhere in Colorado.
Restore The Harmony In Your Love Life
We’ve all heard it, some couples simply become ships passing in the night…
or are just “not on the same page”.
But that feels so impersonal. That's not people who started off as deeply in love as you did, right?
I get it, you went from bringing out the best in each other, to now the absolute worst.
You just want to kick back and relax together but here goes another misunderstanding, argument, or that tone again and the whole night is tense and uncomfortable.
Sound familiar?
We’re human.
We get stuck in unhealthy patterns, we excel at poor communication, misunderstandings, harsh reactions, or maybe even empty ones.
You want to understand each other without one of you setting the other off.
Or maybe it's not that at all. Maybe you're just distant. Feeling like your relationship is lifeless and fizzled out.
All the googling and reading about techniques and strategies aren’t helping and they feel like band-aid temporary solutions if anything.
And what's all that about attachment styles?
I’m here to tell you it’s okay.
And better yet – I’ll help you transform your relationship into what you both desire.
Bringing back that fun and light, passionate (maybe even rip-your-clothes-off) type of connection with your person will transform your entire life.
Seriously.
Long strolls where you get lost in time, laughter about things only the two of you understand, and a red hot passionate sex life is just around the corner.
And everyone's favorite – “healthy communication” (If only this one came hard-wired in all of us from the start)
We just need to get to the CORE of the issues for true long-lasting change.
And how will we do that?
My Somatic and IFS model-infused couples therapy doesn’t just give you the tools for in the moment – we get down to the deep, and sometimes hidden parts of you both.
The ones that are causing the riffs in the first place.
I know you don’t have time for any fluff, that’s why through IFS couples therapy we achieve quick, effective, and long-lasting results.
We’ll find what’s setting you both back individually (and together) and release it.
Traumas show themselves in many ways but especially in your romantic relationships.
Who else could you trust enough to show the “uglier” sides of you?
Beautiful in a way, huh?– Ok, I know, I know. It’s hard to find the beauty when you’re halfway out the door, but trust me, it's there.
Couples are as unique as the individuals themselves, and you need direct and individualized therapy specific to your dynamic.
You can’t find that in a book or scrolling through social media.
That's where my years and countless experiences with couples trying to rediscover their love, just like you, comes in.
